Don’t Take Things Personally--Or Make Things Personal
It’s easy to assume that when someone rejects your idea
or creates a roadblock, he or she is attacking you personally.
In truth, these instances are rarely personal. Most people
are just trying to do their jobs, but a curt response or disagreement
is frequently and mistakenly interpreted as a personal affront.
Rather than letting the situation escalate by arguing over
who’s right and who’s wrong, step back and realize
that no one is out to get you. It’s not personal, and
there’s nothing to be gained by turning your frustration
into a battle with the individual who probably wants what
you do--the right outcome in the least amount of time and
with the least amount of confrontation.
By maintaining a professional demeanor and attitude, you
maintain your dignity and allow the other person to do the
same--whether or not you reach a mutually agreeable outcome.
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